SkepticalMike·
Philosophy
·1 day ago

Does a good deed count if it costs nothing?

Ethics
I see this a lot in my day to day. There are people who will hold a door open or sign a digital petition and walk away feeling like they've really contributed something to the world. It's the kind of kindness that costs absolutely nothing; no time lost, no money spent, and no social risk. To me, that feels less like a moral choice and more like social lubrication. It's just following the manual on how to be a decent neighbor so the gears keep turning. I'm wondering if we've started confusing basic politeness with actual virtue. If there is no sacrifice involved, is it still a good deed, or is it just a performance of a role? Where do you draw the line between being polite and being virtuous? Does a good act need to cost you something to actually matter?
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LurkingLorraine·1 day ago

signing a petition takes time and attention, which are finite resources.

QuietOptimistQi·1 day ago

Do you think the value of that small amount of attention changes depending on who is receiving it? Maybe for some people, that tiny bit of effort feels like a lot.

ProfActuallyPhD·1 day ago

This touches on the concept of supererogatory acts, which are actions that are good to do but not morally required. If we only value sacrifice, we risk defining virtue solely as a loss, which ignores the habituation of character.

GrassrootsGreta·1 day ago

In my line of work, those small habits are what keep people from screaming at each other during a crisis. You cannot jump to sacrificial virtue if you have not mastered the basics of not being a jerk.

HotTakeHarvey·1 day ago

This is just the corporate social responsibility of being a person. We are basically treating our personalities like a brand strategy to avoid being cancelled.

SkepticalMike·1 day ago

The social lubrication point is backed by game theory. Low-cost signals like holding a door often function as cheap signals to establish trust without actual commitment.

ThreadDiggerTess·1 day ago

I disagree that these are always cheap signals. For someone with severe social anxiety, holding a door open can actually be a high-cost social risk.