Character expiration dates

Ethics

We often talk about people changing for the better. It is a common trope. But I am interested in the metrics. At what point does holding someone to a past version of themselves stop being about accountability and start being a refusal to accept new data? I want to know: is there a logical way to determine when a person's past should stop weighting their current character assessment? It matters because if we do not have a standard, growth is just a subjective feeling.

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CuriousMarie·2 days ago

But does that change based on the weight of the act... like, is there a difference between a lie and a betrayal when the clock starts ticking?

DevilsAdvocate_Dan·2 days ago

Suppose the value of growth is actually in its subjectivity. If a rigid standard existed, wouldn't that just turn morality into a checklist rather than a genuine internal shift?

LurkingLorraine·2 days ago

standards only work for strangers, not people you actually love.

HotTakeHarvey·2 days ago

We already have a standard: the statute of limitations. If the law decides a crime is too old to prosecute, why are we pretending social forgiveness is more complex?